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Sides Do Not Matter

Sides Do Not Matter

We especially create sides concerning men and women. We are determined to make the sexes so different, so unique, and often at odds with each other. We learn techniques, styles, and ways of communicating with the opposite sex so we can ultimately be heard and feel connected. We have more information than we have ever had, yet we still have a divorce rate of more than 50 percent. Don’t you think this is odd?

People are attempting to have a relationship with someone else when they do not even have a relationship with themselves. When heterosexual women discover that I am in a very healthy and long-lasting relationship with a wonderful woman, they often say to me, “Well, perhaps I ought to try the other side and see how that goes.” However, the difference is not whether you are with a man or a woman; the difference is how you are with yourself. How you are with yourself will always be the deciding factor in how someone else relates to you. The sex and shape of the person will not change that.

 

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Moving Towards Not Away

Moving Towards Not Away

Since life does not go backward, we wake up and get in touch with the possibilities of how we can begin to honor who we really are right now. We pull out the list in our shielded and protected heart and allow the memories to resurface of the individuals we longed to be when we…

What is prayer anyway?

What is prayer anyway?

Many people think of a prayer as affirming or declaring a request for the first time and our Creator/God says you are my beloved and so it will be or God says I had no idea you wanted such and such. I believe a prayer is declaring and affirming that the desire has been downloaded…

A New Heaven

A New Heaven

May more and more of us awaken to God in these chaotic times, pregnant with both danger and opportunity. May we live the words of the Christian mystic Meister Eckhart who wrote, “The eye with which I see God is the same eye as that with which he sees me. My eye and the eye…

“Near Life” Experiences

“Near Life” Experiences

Life is a gift. It is given without instructions, directions, or an owner’s manual. Life is a performance with no dress rehearsal and a great symphony with very few encores. Some people have near death experiences, yet what if we focus more on the “near life” experiences? True living means giving all that we are…

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